Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Severe Weather

April for us often means tornadoes.  We were kept awake last night by the severe weather and the warnings of James Spann.  We are mentally preparing for more tonight.  Our basement is ready for Eric, Booker and me...plus neighbors Joel, Angie, their two boys and possibly Jillian, Danny and their son Noah.  We have a neighborhood of many homes without basements and I am afraid for people without basements.  I think of Reba.  I'm sure Eric does, too.  It has been three years and two days since I found her mailing label in our roses...

Smith Institute, about twenty minutes away from Gadsden, was hit badly.  Eric worked the area this morning with his camera, documenting the damage. His text to me later, "Man, it's bad."  He found our friends Jacob and Hilary who live in that community.  They were okay.  Their house was not. Virginia and Kenny ended up with their garage pushed into their kitchen.  They are okay, too, though.  And Tami and Jimmy, whose home is down the road a piece from Virginia and Kenny's place, had debris in their yard, but no damage.  As far as we can tell, there has thankfully been no loss of life.

My talented friend Cookie Beck wrote a poem and posted it to Facebook during all the weather related activities last night.  For such a stressful time, it was a moment of clarity and hilarity for this Alabama girl:

33/40

he reads Tweets
and says things like
"complicated polygon"
"lead circulation"
"possible rotation"
and he apologizes that
we are missing 'Wheel of Fortune' right now.
Shhhh.
don't you be sorry, James.
your suspenders
are my Tornado Safe Place.

Y'all be safe out there.

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

We Share the Same Sky by Elizabeth Mozley McGrady




We Share the Same Sky is the account of author Elizabeth Mozley McGrady’s 2007 pilgrimage to New York City; a pilgrimage that was of particular significance to her spirit, a journey to right a life that was no longer her own.

Interspersed with the history of both McGrady’s beloved home state of Alabama and her equally cherished yet temporarily adopted home of New York City, We Share the Same Sky would easily serve as a guide book to be carried in the worn backpack of a literary and gastronomic tourist of either place.  There is much in this book to marinate over, be it the detailed accounts of delectable meals in celebrated (and not so celebrated) New York restaurants or at her Grandmother Libby’s table, the descriptions of breathtaking architecture and scenery, the references to great literary works, or the reflections of the “inner consciousness” that cautions, “You are not at peace because you are not as you should be.”

Through McGrady’s journey, we recognize how our sense of place connects us to others, to our surroundings, and even to ourselves.   We are reminded that no matter where we travel, simple things connect us all, be they food, religion, family, history.

McGrady’s memoir is penned with intense introspection balanced by self-deprecating humor. It is an excellent read.  She will be at the GPL Local Author Day on May 17, 10AM-3PM.  I will be purchasing my own copy of her book then, as the copy I’ve been reading belongs to the library…

Author Elizabeth Mozley McGrady and I have crossed paths before.  We attended the same high school in Etowah County over twenty-six years ago, she being two grades ahead of me and friends with my older sister, making her a celestial being to us underclass mortals.  I knew her then as Beth Mozley.  She and I have, at times, figuratively and literally walked in each other’s footsteps since then.  We were recently brought together face-to-face for the first time in so many long years through my dear friend Dan Donaghy, who was visiting Gadsden from Connecticut again as our GPL writer in residence for a series of poetry writing workshops and speaking engagements.  Dan and I are chums from the days of Ithaca, NY.  Beth and her husband Travis, who currently live close to Gadsden, but not within spitting distance, drove in on a rather dreary night to hear Dan’s reading at the Back Forty Beer Co.  And there, the pieces fell into place.  At the end of the evening, I could not help but reflect on the rather serendipitous series of circumstances that brought everyone together at that place, at that particular time.  But I tend to do that sort of thing often.

Saturday, March 29, 2014

The ring, the box, and a found medicine bottle with dropper.





In a January post about Eric’s grandmother Jane, I mentioned her wedding ring quilt that we brought home with us from Topeka.  I also mentioned that my mother had pointed out to me how serendipitous it was that we were given that particular quilt by Eric's parents, what with it being a wedding ring design.  What I was hinting at in that post was that there was recent news of an engagement.  Ours.   On New Year’s Day, Kansas Slim presented me a six-sided wooden box (six-sided to represent our six years of partnership, crafted clandestinely in our terribly cold workshop just weeks before), therein nestled an eternity band.  He asked of me a question, to which I replied, “Yes I said yes I will yes!”  There may have been some tears.  And I'm pretty sure that I squealed.  Because that's what's supposed to happen when you get engaged.

We are to be married this autumn.

Friday, March 28, 2014

Slow Food




From an email I sent on January 18, 2010, but still the gospel.


"I would consider myself and most of my friends unofficial members of the "slow food" movement. For us, it’s less about getting the food quickly into the belly (although there are those moments), and more about the experience of cooking, eating and sharing the food with each other. We all know that home cooked food far exceeds the taste and quality of fast food. But if we stop to think about it, home cooking our food also provides the opportunity for us to slow down, enjoy the way food is prepared, enjoy the taste of the food, and enjoy the communion of sharing the food with family and friends. Food is far too important to us as a culture (continentally, regionally, etc.) to waste all of our calories on the emptiness of a Value Meal. Give me those hours in the backyard of a friend’s house, digging a pit in which to roast a pig (not to mention the hours of roasting after basting, spice rubbing and wrapping the pig)! Give me even more hours sitting knee to knee at a small dining room table eating food that was cooked as part of a local Iron Chef Cajun contest, swapping stories about Lord-knows-what at a dinner party that will end at who-knows-what hour! Give me those moments of staging drive-by-dinner attacks on each other, using made-up recipes that rely heavily upon the cleaning out of the freezer. And give me those moments at friends’ houses, late in the evening when kids are safely tucked away, and the adults are sitting at the dining room table (or the kid’s table, depending upon whose house I’m remembering), testing out a bottle of someone’s homebrew or eating home-brined olives…Yep, food should be slow, not fast."

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Breaker, Breaker

On Tuesday, our electrician upgraded the service to The Bungalow.  He also upgraded The Bungalow from fuses to breaker boxes and fixed some wiring that had been worrying him since he had laid eyes it two weeks before during the consult.  We like our electrician.  He is a fellow Panther from Southside High and I graduated with his sister.  GO PANTHERS!  This was just Phase I in The Electric Bungalow Project.  Phase II will begin in a couple of weeks and will be referred to from this point forward as Phase II:  Electric Bungalew.  Sorry.  I would take it back, but it is already out there.

In less than five hours, went from this, this and this:
































To this, this, and this:










Friday, March 14, 2014

The Better To Walk On


A little over a month ago, we decided to bite the bullet and use the Quikrete Walkmaker to build a sidewalk between the gate/back steps and the old garage.  The ground is uneven.  And mostly in shade.  Little lives there except for moss...and mud.  Perfect spot for a raised path.

These are the pavers that we had temporarily put down four years ago.























I took up the old pavers and leveled the ground as best I could.










































After several weeks and much snow, Eric and I were finally able to get the bulk of the sidewalk made.  We used many 80lb. bags of Quikrete, a wheel barrow, a shovel and two hand trowels.  Back breaking.





















And after about a week, we located enough Sakrete jointing sand to fill the joints.





















I transplanted several hydrangeas into the area beside the fence, and filled in the bed with erosion-controlling pine straw that I collected from the roadside at mom and dad's place.  I like free landscaping materials. 



















Eric and I are pretty pleased with the results.  So is Booker.  Now, to clean and finish out the front of the garage.  Then, to paint.

Saturday, February 15, 2014

The Consolation

Two mornings ago, sidewalks slick with ice, I made my two-mile, pre-work walk after a week and a half of rain, sleet and snow...which equals no morning walk.  Not another soul in sight except the striking older woman in a red coat boldly power-walking in the middle of Turrentine Street.  This is her technique, as I've seen her walking before.  I am not so willing to brave the middle of the street, preferring to keep to the sidewalks, with their frost and root upheaved chunks of concrete.  She and I smile and greet each other.  Maybe one day I will be her.

The upside this morning is that the sun is visibly coming up earlier.  Spring, soon?